April 7, 2026

Executive Functioning for K–3 Teachers with Mitch Weathers and Sarah Oberle

Executive Functioning for K–3 Teachers with Mitch Weathers and Sarah Oberle
The Balancing Act
Executive Functioning for K–3 Teachers with Mitch Weathers and Sarah Oberle

In this episode of The Balancing Act, we welcome back Mitch Weathers and chat with Sarah Oberle about their new book, Executive Functions for Every K-3 Classroom, diving into the critical role executive functioning plays in young learners. We keep things light and relatable while unpacking how skills like focus, self-regulation, and impulse control develop—and why kids aren’t misbehaving, they’re still learning how to learn. The conversation blends practical classroom strategies with real-life moments, showing how small changes in routines and environment can make a big difference. We also explore how to recognize when students may need extra support without jumping to conclusions. It’s a fun but meaningful discussion that leaves educators and parents with simple, actionable ways to better support kids from the start.

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In this episode of The Balancing Act, we welcome back Mitch Weathers and chat with Sarah Oberle about their new book, Executive Functions for Every K-3 Classroom, diving into the critical role executive functioning plays in young learners. We keep things light and relatable while unpacking how skills like focus, self-regulation, and impulse control develop—and why kids aren’t misbehaving, they’re still learning how to learn. The conversation blends practical classroom strategies with real-life moments, showing how small changes in routines and environment can make a big difference. We also explore how to recognize when students may need extra support without jumping to conclusions. It’s a fun but meaningful discussion that leaves educators and parents with simple, actionable ways to better support kids from the start.

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We have talked a lot about executive function.

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It's Joe's favorite thing to talk about. talk about i mean

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yeah uh but definitely this is going to be a cool talk today um and we have

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a returning guest with who brought a friend with him so we're really excited

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to have him so why don't we bring him on in and get to talking well hello mitch

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weathers and sarah oberley how are you it's very good to have you guys here with us today how are you.

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Great. Thank you. All right. We are super excited to have you.

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Mitch, I think your microphone might be muted there.

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Hey, now we're back. I'm excited. We're excited to be here.

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Yes. Thank you so much for joining us today on the Balancing Act podcast.

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We've had the pleasure of meeting Mitch and talking to him last season.

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And this is our first time speaking with you, Sarah. So it's so nice to meet

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you. Thank you so much for being here.

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Well, thank you for having me. So we are super excited for you guys to talk

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about all the things executive function. Please fix our lives.

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I know that you have a new book out that you guys are going to be talking about today.

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We're really excited to hear about it and also about all things executive function,

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Mitch, because we really enjoyed our talk last season, which was great.

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As Jamie knows, this is one of my favorite things to talk about.

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This and ice cream are Joe's top two favorite things. It might be Diet Coke, then ice cream, okay?

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And executive functioning, yes. Then executive function, yes, for sure.

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So, Mitch, tell us what you've been up to recently, man. What's been new in

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the Mitch Weathers world?

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Well, the last two years has been, I can't remember exactly when we recorded.

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I want to say it was about springtime last year, right around this time last year, I think. Okay.

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Okay, so I probably didn't mention it.

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I don't know when Sarah and I started the project, but when the first book on

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executive functions came out in March of 2024, and it was really well received, which is great.

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We've been doing all kinds of great work around that. But one of the kind of

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consistent bits of feedback were the K-1-2, K-1-2-3 teachers.

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The primary space, like, what about us?

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Because the subtitle of my first book specifically mentions grade bands 3 through 12.

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And I was very deliberate because my work with Organized

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Binder and my own teaching experience I've had quite

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a bit of upper elementary middle to upper elementary middle

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school and then high school experience and I really wanted that

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that first book to be genuine and authentic

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and I felt like I could speak to those those grade

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bands as an expert and provide

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some value but what I didn't want to pretend that i understood as

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well were the primary years and like more than

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more times than i can count we would have like a book study offered

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by a district or a county office or something where people

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could just sign up and the consistent like every time it was all the primary

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teachers that signed up first like right out of the the shoot and then they

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would you know still participate and read the book we'd have good discussion

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but if they were being honest they're like it's not an exact fit.

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I'm pulling things from it, right? Which is fine. So...

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What I've been up to since we've chatted is I had the good fortune of meeting Dr.

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Sarah Oberle in 2022 and have interacted since then. I got to hear her speak

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at a conference that she invited me to.

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I've never heard a more succinct definition of working memory and cognitive load.

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And in response to that feedback, I said, you know, this book,

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it needs to be written. The work needs to be created and put out in the world.

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And I know who is the perfect partner to do that and reached out to Sarah and

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she said yes, thankfully.

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And so that's what both of us have been, one of the things we've been working

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on since then and it just now published.

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So that is awesome. That's what's been keeping us busy.

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Yeah. I often look at like K to three teachers. I know that that's what the

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book is geared towards, correct?

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Um and i often look at like k to three teachers as like rock stars to me because

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like i can't i can't do it like i don't know how they do it i don't i and and

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those they're adorable the kids are their kids are cute and you know i loved

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that age when my kids were that age but i i could not,

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for the life of me i couldn't do it i i just and a lot of people look at me

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teaching middle school for 28 years in the same vein, right?

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They'd say the same thing.

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They would say the same thing, but I just, I can't. I know, Jane,

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you did elementary school for a short period of time.

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Yes, but I didn't do the primary, I mean, the early childhood.

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Oh, you didn't do early childhood? No, no, no. It was also interesting when

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we visited a local college recently and we had this little session about teaching

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in the classroom with a great group of students from the college in New Jersey,

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who many of which have become listeners. so hi guys hi guys um.

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So many of them in that little group that we met with were early childhood education.

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And they were just like these little passionate sponges of like,

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and I was sitting there and I'm listening to them talk about,

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you know, their, their excitement to go into the profession.

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And I'm like, I don't know how they're going to do this.

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Cause I don't know how you teach those little piles of mashed potatoes and get

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them to do things that you want them to do. Uh, it's so crazy to me to,

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to think about that on, on the daily that I just don't.

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And if I do, it's normally in a nightmare and I wake up in a cold sweat.

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So, um, for sure. Um,

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how would you guys define, or Sarah, I'll throw this to you.

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How would you define, um, executive function in the context of kindergarten

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to third grade students?

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Like, what does that look like in a kindergarten to third grade class or?

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Um i'm happy to uh respond to that i just want to first say that i feel that

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way about middle schoolers oh i have two myself in my home and um oh you do they they.

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You're like warmed up their heart there sarah and that's i've always heard that

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is easier to go up in the grades than it is to go down. Okay.

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And so, you know, I'm in first, so I've only got one more grade to go down.

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But, yeah, so I have the utmost respect for middle school because,

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you know, that just kind of, I would be petrified.

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What grade are your kids in? Okay, so...

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My own children are fifth and seventh.

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Okay. So the seventh grader, like this is the worst. It's, it's just,

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it's the worst year. It's all uphill from here. It's all uphill from here.

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Like this is this, like, if you want me to lie to you, Sarah,

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I will. But like, this is the year where it's like, it's, it's the worst.

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And then next year, it just kind of levels off. Like they, you know,

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their brains develop a little bit more.

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They become less impulsive, but then you have your fifth grader that's going

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to come into this too. So you'll at least know what to expect when it comes

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down the pike in a couple of years.

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Yeah. Well, I know nothing.

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And, you know. Oh, yeah. That sounds about right.

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But I just have a question because my 16-year-old is still saying the same thing.

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So, Joe, I'm not sure it gets better.

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Yeah. Right at 13, Sarah, is pretty much when we don't know anything anymore.

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We can't teach them anything. They know everything. We don't know everything.

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That happens right at the age of 13. So that tracks. It tracks pretty much. It really is.

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It's miraculous. I mean, they know what I'm going to say before I even say it.

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But to answer your question, executive functions, they are a set of interrelated

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cognitive processes that we rely on,

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not just as children or students, but as humans, to keep ideas in mind, to,

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inhibit ourselves from acting on impulse, to control and drive our attention

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to what we need to be paying attention to,

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to complete goals, and to get along with other people, to be able to switch

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between tasks quickly. So,

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In a K-1-2-3 environment, you know, that looks like things like being able to

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pay attention to the teacher and listen to the teacher when the teacher's talking and not be,

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you know, in a daze or playing with your friends or your fingers or,

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you know, looking out the door.

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It looks like remembering the directions and then being able to complete a task independently.

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It looks like understanding that when unpredictable things happen,

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that that's okay and we don't have to cry and we don't have to get angry and

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it's going to be all right.

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So all of those situations require executive functions.

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And in the early years, we're looking at, so there's six executive function processes.

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There's three, they're divided into two groups. And the three that develop first

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are called the core executive functions.

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And that's what Mitch and I focused on for the book that we just wrote.

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And that is because those are developing toddler to, you know, elementary age.

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So for K-1, 2, 3, really important to understand because your kids are in the

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midst of explosive of development with those core executive functions.

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Now, beyond the core, once the core are established, then you get the three

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higher order, which is the other three out of the six,

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which are planning, reasoning, and problem solving.

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So at ages five, six, seven, eight, we're not necessarily looking for that,

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but we are very much relying on our students and their developing ability to, you know,

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hold information in their minds, to get along with their peers, to, you know,

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exhibit the student behaviors that we need them to learn to be successful in

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an academic environment.

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So when, sorry, I was just pulling up my notes again.

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What are some early signs teachers

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and parents might notice that point to executive function struggles?

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Because I know a lot of parents, when they'd want to support their kids outside

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of the classroom with the teacher's expectations, right?

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What should we be looking for? What are some warning signs, if you will,

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as to how we can assist our kids, our own children with executive function at the primary grades.

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And I'll, I'll let Mitch jump in, but I just want to give a disclaimer that

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at the ages of, you know, pre-K, kindergarten, first, second,

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we have to consider the fact that they are in development.

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So we're not looking for our students to, you know, exhibit 100% ability to control themselves.

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I mean, even adults can't do that. So we just have to keep in mind,

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is this just development or is this disfluency with executive functions?

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It's not necessarily a problem.

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It's just us understanding that it's under construction. Go ahead, Mitch.

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Yeah i know i was thinking you're gonna mention the same thing that it's really,

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understanding with this this book um in particular is one of the i think the.

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Biggest value points it's going to add is just an understanding of what's happening,

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developmentally with students and to remember that sarah and i keep talking

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about these you put on these executive functioning glasses and you're kind of

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seeing all things not just the student and maybe the behaviors they're demonstrating

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with this knowledge, kind of equipped with this knowledge.

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So another note before we talk about what it might look like,

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signs of executive dysfunction is one, as Sarah said, keep in mind,

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they're just starting to emerge in these little tiny human beings.

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So that should be expected and even anticipated. and therefore how we approach

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our learning environments, our instruction, our routines are kind of through that lens.

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And another thing to note is that.

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This work is designed and intended to be a tier one, an MTSS tier one,

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so that all students are getting exposure to access.

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And one of the things that Sarah and I talk about in the book,

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and it's pretty common that when you say executive functions,

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it tends to, when you look at that work, it tends to be couched in tier two,

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tier three, and our special ed teams, which is fantastic.

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But um when in

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the absence of a tier one right we can't tier

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two ourselves out of a tier one that's missing the tier one problem but if it's

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there and we're anticipating maybe some of these struggles and adjusting things

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to to help students have the best chance of kind of developing these core executive

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functions it's a win-win so the anticipation and then the fact that it's for all kids.

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But what would it look like? In fact, you know what?

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I'm going to let Sarah respond to that because she has so many stories.

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And at first, she would say when we're writing the book that we don't even have to say that.

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And I'd be like, what do you mean? She's like, primary teachers,

00:16:02.688 --> 00:16:06.148
it'll feel like we're talking down to them or we don't understand.

00:16:06.288 --> 00:16:10.328
This is literally the air we breathe so we're

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gonna leave that and some of that she actually finally had to send

00:16:13.408 --> 00:16:16.168
me a video to show me like this is what i

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mean by like step by step by step and the just the behaviors and the little

00:16:20.848 --> 00:16:24.968
bodies in the room and it was like you were saying earlier joe it's like i was

00:16:24.968 --> 00:16:28.408
exhausted at the end of the five minute video which was a tutorial on how to

00:16:28.408 --> 00:16:32.008
put your chair up at the end of the day and there was like seven steps that

00:16:32.008 --> 00:16:33.808
she modeled each step and i was It's like,

00:16:33.908 --> 00:16:37.248
oh my gosh, she's been doing this for six hours, right?

00:16:37.468 --> 00:16:42.208
So what's it look like? I think it would be more authentic to hear from a couple

00:16:42.208 --> 00:16:43.928
antidotes from you, Sarah.

00:16:45.808 --> 00:16:50.188
Right. So maybe from today, perhaps, yes.

00:16:50.828 --> 00:16:56.588
Um, uh, so, you know, again, just to emphasize seeing these things does not

00:16:56.588 --> 00:16:57.448
mean that there's a problem.

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It just simply, uh, is, you know, illustrative of the fact that we are at,

00:17:04.948 --> 00:17:08.868
at these ages, we are still working on getting there.

00:17:09.108 --> 00:17:15.708
So, um, some of the things that you might see are very quickly forgetting instructions.

00:17:15.808 --> 00:17:22.168
So, you know, you get a set of directions for an activity and two seconds later,

00:17:22.168 --> 00:17:26.928
they're asking you what to do and you're like, I just told you.

00:17:27.728 --> 00:17:32.888
So, you know, it's possible that they weren't able to maintain attention.

00:17:33.228 --> 00:17:36.928
It's possible that their working memory was so overloaded.

00:17:36.928 --> 00:17:42.808
Maybe you gave them too many directions at once or whatever the learning activity

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was or the content that you were covering.

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They're trying to maintain that in mind and keep your directions in mind and

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something's got to give.

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So you'll see things like that. You'll see kids that really struggle constantly.

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To orient their attention where it should be. So if I'm teaching,

00:18:03.156 --> 00:18:09.656
I expect my students to be looking at me or looking at the board or something that I'm gesturing to.

00:18:09.916 --> 00:18:15.076
But sometimes you'll see kids that are, you know, almost in a daze,

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not that adults don't do that too.

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But for kids, it's much, much harder to release that reflexive attention,

00:18:23.736 --> 00:18:28.396
the things that you want to kind of drift off in your mind or the things that

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are externally distracting to you.

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So you'll see kids that really struggle with that attentional piece.

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You will see kids who have a really hard time getting over changes in schedules

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or disruptions in normal routines

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that's very upsetting for them or they tend to like ruminate on it.

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I always say, you know, if I see a substitute after I've been out,

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they'll always say, this one kept telling me what to do all day.

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It kept telling me I was doing it wrong, that that's not how the teacher does it.

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And so it is because they are so tied to the way that things are supposed to be.

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And it is hard for them to release that rigidity of thoughts.

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So, you know, I could get more content specific if you'd like,

00:19:18.396 --> 00:19:25.576
but those are just some general common behaviors that you might see that could

00:19:25.576 --> 00:19:35.056
be indicative of either a compromised executive function processes or just the fact that, you know,

00:19:35.256 --> 00:19:37.856
they are by nature in process.

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So, yeah. And I think it's harder for kids that age to do things.

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I think what you're saying strikes a struggle chord with me because in lots

00:19:49.116 --> 00:19:52.836
of the teachers that we know and even Joe and I, our experiences in middle school,

00:19:53.076 --> 00:19:56.516
there is such a common difference.

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Thread of kids not doing those things that you had said.

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And it's so developmentally inappropriate for the average seventh or eighth

00:20:05.001 --> 00:20:10.001
grader not to be able to listen to a set of directions and then apply.

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And we're just seeing that like widespread across the board.

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And those are definitely things that if you're in development in pre-K one,

00:20:18.761 --> 00:20:23.281
two, three, by the time that you're in eighth grade, should mostly be handled.

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And so I think we're seeing that spread throughout. But there's kind of this

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pattern of developmental problems not being addressed in the primary grades,

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and then they just continue on.

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And, you know, little kids, little problems, big kids, big problems.

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But it's definitely something that we see throughout middle school,

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which is concerning for sure.

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And we hear that all the time, you know, when we discuss this and we're talking

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about primary and people will say, well, I see the same thing in my high schoolers

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or, you know, and so it might look a little different.

00:21:02.022 --> 00:21:09.142
And it is true, again, executive functions are human cognitive processes.

00:21:09.522 --> 00:21:16.282
So some of us just have a stronger ability to inhibit ourselves from doing something

00:21:16.282 --> 00:21:19.882
we want to do, from checking our phone, from eating something that we shouldn't eat.

00:21:19.882 --> 00:21:26.042
So it is very individual, but we have to keep in mind for the purposes of our

00:21:26.042 --> 00:21:33.042
teachers of K123, just how delicate these processes are.

00:21:33.182 --> 00:21:39.942
And we rely on them so much for completing academic learning, academic tasks.

00:21:39.942 --> 00:21:47.962
So just to be wary of how fragile they are and what can we do to preserve whatever

00:21:47.962 --> 00:21:51.222
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Can you share one or two simple strategies that teachers can start using to

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support working memory or even self-regulation?

00:23:37.821 --> 00:23:43.281
Sure. Want me to jump in, Sarah? Sure. Yeah. We can piggyback on this one.

00:23:43.801 --> 00:23:48.181
So we, in the book, the core executive functions, working memory,

00:23:48.441 --> 00:23:53.861
inhibition, can I inhibit both external, internal stimuli or feelings,

00:23:53.921 --> 00:23:58.401
and then cognitive flexibility are the three core executive functions.

00:23:59.261 --> 00:24:02.941
And that's a great question, by the way, Jamie, because it's looking at,

00:24:03.021 --> 00:24:07.881
you know, what realistically is in my sphere of influence as an educator?

00:24:07.881 --> 00:24:14.701
What can I influence in terms of executive functions in the primary years in particular?

00:24:14.861 --> 00:24:18.321
That's true of any year, but since we're talking about this book and those grade

00:24:18.321 --> 00:24:22.281
bands, and specifically the

00:24:22.281 --> 00:24:26.261
three kind of domains that we outline are the environment, environment.

00:24:26.994 --> 00:24:31.154
My instruction and routines. And when we look at,

00:24:31.274 --> 00:24:35.654
I'll just speak to environment real quick, and maybe Sarah can mention instruction

00:24:35.654 --> 00:24:42.294
and routines, but we specifically kind of hone in on the acoustic environment,

00:24:42.594 --> 00:24:46.114
the visual environment, but then also the physical environment.

00:24:46.114 --> 00:24:49.774
And if I'm looking at that space,

00:24:49.974 --> 00:24:54.674
the learning space through a cognitive load lens, recognizing

00:24:54.674 --> 00:24:57.854
that working memory is kind of the the engine

00:24:57.854 --> 00:25:00.814
for learning if you will the engine for staying on

00:25:00.814 --> 00:25:04.954
task and paying attention and it's finite it has a a certain amount of bandwidth

00:25:04.954 --> 00:25:10.134
to it and the more i'm using for anything other than those factors there's just

00:25:10.134 --> 00:25:15.894
less available and that's where joe your question about what behaviors you know

00:25:15.894 --> 00:25:19.114
like sarah was saying they it may be an issue, it may not.

00:25:19.414 --> 00:25:23.874
And as we start to put those executive functioning glasses on and think about

00:25:23.874 --> 00:25:29.454
our environment, I tell a story of a student that I talked to because I was

00:25:29.454 --> 00:25:31.614
in a walking classrooms.

00:25:31.614 --> 00:25:35.994
I was visiting a school and it was a really loud, I happened to be in a really

00:25:35.994 --> 00:25:39.554
loud classroom just at that time of day, it was in elementary.

00:25:39.954 --> 00:25:42.934
And I noticed a student who had her eyes

00:25:42.934 --> 00:25:46.394
closed and was kind of doing the lean back

00:25:46.394 --> 00:25:49.174
during the the lesson and i had a chance

00:25:49.174 --> 00:25:52.334
to chat with her afterwards and she just shared

00:25:52.334 --> 00:25:56.074
with me you know well that's that's what i have to do to like try to block out

00:25:56.074 --> 00:26:00.294
the sound because it was one of these classrooms whereas the kids got louder

00:26:00.294 --> 00:26:04.954
the teacher just kept shouting louder and louder you know and and doesn't work

00:26:04.954 --> 00:26:10.414
obviously but that was kind of the the way it rolled in there and so considering okay the.

00:26:11.096 --> 00:26:16.156
I'm using that inhibitory process. I'm trying to inhibit that so that I can

00:26:16.156 --> 00:26:22.376
focus on what I'm trying to do, the activity, the lesson, whatever it is that I'm focusing on.

00:26:22.656 --> 00:26:26.216
Well, that takes a lot of that cognitive energy bandwidth.

00:26:26.616 --> 00:26:30.476
So as a teacher, it's not saying that it has to be silent all the time,

00:26:30.616 --> 00:26:33.416
but is a noisy classroom always a productive classroom?

00:26:34.056 --> 00:26:38.956
Might be. It might not be. And so putting those glasses on and thinking about

00:26:38.956 --> 00:26:40.656
that, same thing with the visual environment.

00:26:40.656 --> 00:26:46.496
Sarah very well, they assess this all the time that like just the research is

00:26:46.496 --> 00:26:51.816
very clear that the scanning and looking around is really taxing on working memory.

00:26:52.256 --> 00:26:56.556
And so how do I start to think about the visual field that I play students in?

00:26:56.676 --> 00:26:57.976
And again, it's strategic.

00:26:58.476 --> 00:27:02.216
Sarah's with her first grade students all day long. so there's

00:27:02.216 --> 00:27:05.636
going to be times where it might be advantageous for

00:27:05.636 --> 00:27:08.476
it to be quiet or quieter and I'm giving

00:27:08.476 --> 00:27:11.756
direct instruction or delivering some directions or

00:27:11.756 --> 00:27:15.776
whatever it might be so maybe I'm going to stand in a place where there's less visual

00:27:15.776 --> 00:27:18.696
stimuli behind me or in the visual

00:27:18.696 --> 00:27:21.656
field so those types of considerations would

00:27:21.656 --> 00:27:24.696
be right which I personally think are really almost fun and

00:27:24.696 --> 00:27:27.476
interesting to step back and go let me think about

00:27:27.476 --> 00:27:30.716
this because there's going to be things that every most students are carrying

00:27:30.716 --> 00:27:34.156
that you can't influence both you

00:27:34.156 --> 00:27:37.216
know it's positive like i want to go to recess and play with my friend or

00:27:37.216 --> 00:27:41.636
maybe they're carrying some stuff from home you know their lived experience

00:27:41.636 --> 00:27:45.916
that they're having to inhibit to stay focused so the invite the environment

00:27:45.916 --> 00:27:49.956
and i'll pass it to sarah for maybe i mentioned of instruction and routines

00:27:49.956 --> 00:27:56.876
but it's that that kind of practical strategies that we outline in the book.

00:27:59.268 --> 00:28:04.788
Go, Sarah. Thanks. So instruction-wise,

00:28:05.368 --> 00:28:12.928
you know, we go into scaffolding and not just instruction, but independent activities,

00:28:13.148 --> 00:28:19.208
making sure that we're not releasing our students to do too much because we

00:28:19.208 --> 00:28:23.928
know that's a long time and that's a lot of directions and content for them to remember.

00:28:23.928 --> 00:28:31.728
Um, one of the things that might seem counterintuitive that we talk about in the book is, um,

00:28:32.028 --> 00:28:36.448
being very careful when you are teaching about the stories that you tell and

00:28:36.448 --> 00:28:39.108
the examples that you give. So, um.

00:28:40.489 --> 00:28:46.489
When I am teaching and I think, oh my gosh, one of my daughters did that yesterday

00:28:46.489 --> 00:28:50.789
and I just want to tell them, as soon as I tell them that, what are they all thinking about?

00:28:51.169 --> 00:28:57.369
They're thinking about Mrs. Overly's daughters and they're thinking about whatever I just brought up.

00:28:57.569 --> 00:29:02.649
And really that was on me because I should have inhibited my impulse to tell

00:29:02.649 --> 00:29:05.129
that story in the moment because now I have them all distracted.

00:29:06.029 --> 00:29:09.009
Same thing goes with examples. so

00:29:09.009 --> 00:29:12.809
I think in the book we used um Disney and

00:29:12.809 --> 00:29:15.509
you know we want to connect with our students we

00:29:15.509 --> 00:29:20.289
want to engage them and interest them but we have to be careful because the

00:29:20.289 --> 00:29:25.069
minute you uh and if you've ever been in a primary classroom you see this right

00:29:25.069 --> 00:29:28.869
away the minute I say okay we're going to talk about maps today we're going

00:29:28.869 --> 00:29:34.409
to learn about map keys and this is a map of Disney it's 25 hands go upright.

00:29:34.669 --> 00:29:43.869
I went to, I saw where, it's like everybody's gone and now that's all they can think about.

00:29:44.049 --> 00:29:48.529
It's like the kids that have their hands up when you're still teaching and you

00:29:48.529 --> 00:29:51.989
know they don't hear you because all they're thinking about is what they want to ask.

00:29:52.509 --> 00:29:57.829
So you have to be careful about connecting with them,

00:29:57.949 --> 00:30:03.709
but not sending them off into another mental space where and now they're distracted

00:30:03.709 --> 00:30:09.049
because you mentioned Disney, and now everybody's mind is on Disney.

00:30:09.409 --> 00:30:13.589
And now you're saying, okay, I just talked about that. Everybody's excited about

00:30:13.589 --> 00:30:14.909
it. But don't think about that.

00:30:15.049 --> 00:30:18.349
We're talking about maps. Remember, guys, that I want you to make map keys.

00:30:18.889 --> 00:30:24.689
And I've just made it harder for them to do that because I sparked this idea

00:30:24.689 --> 00:30:28.069
that is really exciting. So.

00:30:29.182 --> 00:30:34.722
That is one of the considerations that, you know, we can put our students in

00:30:34.722 --> 00:30:38.822
situations that we give them interference.

00:30:38.822 --> 00:30:44.622
We make it harder for them to, we put more demand on their executive functions

00:30:44.622 --> 00:30:50.362
because now, now they have to focus their attention on me.

00:30:50.502 --> 00:30:54.942
They have to ignore whatever's in their environment. They have to try to ignore

00:30:54.942 --> 00:30:59.182
whatever thoughts are popping in that, you know, I really want to think about

00:30:59.182 --> 00:31:03.722
Disney or I, you know, she said her daughters and now I'm thinking about her daughters.

00:31:03.882 --> 00:31:07.362
And one time her daughter came to visit and I remember and let's talk about that.

00:31:07.962 --> 00:31:16.342
So instruction-wise, you know, that is one of the considerations that we suggest.

00:31:18.842 --> 00:31:22.562
Routines, this was an instance where I said to Mitch, we don't have to tell

00:31:22.562 --> 00:31:23.922
these teachers they need routines.

00:31:24.202 --> 00:31:27.922
These teachers, they know this. They will be so insulted if we say,

00:31:28.062 --> 00:31:30.702
hey, primary teachers, you should all have routines.

00:31:30.922 --> 00:31:33.882
Like, we have to to survive.

00:31:35.042 --> 00:31:39.622
But we can be really thoughtful with our routines. Sometimes routines can be

00:31:39.622 --> 00:31:42.562
too complicated. They can be too wordy.

00:31:43.162 --> 00:31:48.162
So we want to think succinctly and we want to think, you know,

00:31:48.762 --> 00:31:53.442
mini routines so that just like when you have a list and you cross things off,

00:31:53.582 --> 00:31:55.802
okay, did that, now I'll go to the next thing.

00:31:55.822 --> 00:31:59.922
We want to think about our routines that way. So just put your folders away.

00:32:01.302 --> 00:32:04.422
Cross it off the list. It's done. Keep it out of your mind. So this way they're

00:32:04.422 --> 00:32:06.922
not thinking about, okay, I have to do that. And then I have to do that.

00:32:07.042 --> 00:32:07.842
And then I have to do that.

00:32:08.622 --> 00:32:13.842
And they're kind of maintaining that all at once versus I did that, got my folder, check.

00:32:14.282 --> 00:32:18.002
Now I can move on to think about the next thing. Um, and if you think about

00:32:18.002 --> 00:32:21.902
it, this applies for, for any person, but particularly in the classroom with

00:32:21.902 --> 00:32:27.222
our kids that are more vulnerable to these, um, you know, cognitive demands.

00:32:28.242 --> 00:32:35.042
So, um, you know, Just when we understand executive functions a little bit about

00:32:35.042 --> 00:32:36.342
what's going on in our students'

00:32:36.542 --> 00:32:43.262
minds, we can sort of start to anticipate some of the pain points that might be ahead.

00:32:43.622 --> 00:32:50.482
We can start to identify, oh, I feel like there's several kids here who are

00:32:50.482 --> 00:32:53.842
telling me they don't remember the directions. I think I gave them too much.

00:32:54.662 --> 00:32:58.282
It's just too much for them. Or I put them in a situation. I say,

00:32:58.382 --> 00:33:03.042
everybody go find a partner. and now there's arguments happening and somebody's crying.

00:33:03.542 --> 00:33:08.042
That was too much flexibility for me to expect them to be able to exhibit.

00:33:08.042 --> 00:33:10.342
I should have just assigned them the partners.

00:33:10.702 --> 00:33:16.882
So those are just a few examples of what we need to think about.

00:33:18.083 --> 00:33:24.663
All of which to middle school teachers here in this conversation with us,

00:33:24.843 --> 00:33:29.623
I imagine you're sitting there listening going like, yeah, that's applicable to middle school.

00:33:29.863 --> 00:33:33.243
Might look a little bit different. I know it is for as a high school teacher. It's like this.

00:33:33.943 --> 00:33:38.083
Yeah, it's what we're really what everything we're talking about,

00:33:38.183 --> 00:33:42.223
right, is the hidden curriculum that exists in every classroom in the world.

00:33:42.363 --> 00:33:44.083
This these unspoken kind of.

00:33:44.243 --> 00:33:48.203
Well, I just assume you could do that. That's the expectation. And, you know,

00:33:48.643 --> 00:33:52.563
stepping back from that, which is the one, the one thing that with this book

00:33:52.563 --> 00:34:00.103
specifically saying K3 and it is written for K3 and we really want teachers

00:34:00.103 --> 00:34:02.343
in those grade levels to be heard and seen.

00:34:02.343 --> 00:34:07.923
But every teacher K through,

00:34:08.203 --> 00:34:15.263
I would say, even college would benefit from reading this and or spending some

00:34:15.263 --> 00:34:19.303
time in a really gifted primary teacher's classroom because it's all relevant.

00:34:19.903 --> 00:34:25.563
I know when you were speaking about the routines, I was thinking about when

00:34:25.563 --> 00:34:28.763
we do stations in my classroom, and I had a conversation with Jamie about it

00:34:28.763 --> 00:34:29.623
because we're in the same building.

00:34:30.083 --> 00:34:34.203
And I was talking about, yeah, every time we do stations, this kid gets a job,

00:34:34.323 --> 00:34:36.443
and this kid gets a job, and everybody has a different job.

00:34:36.503 --> 00:34:38.883
And she's like, oh, you rotate the jobs? I'm like, yeah.

00:34:39.814 --> 00:34:43.734
I don't know. We don't do that. They get a job and that's their job for the

00:34:43.734 --> 00:34:47.014
year. So if they're the collector, if they're the recorder, that's their job.

00:34:47.594 --> 00:34:52.174
And that makes a lot more sense to me now looking at it because it allows them

00:34:52.174 --> 00:34:55.434
to take ownership and know every time this is what I'm doing.

00:34:56.054 --> 00:35:00.434
And to me, that's one of those simplification of the process, right?

00:35:01.154 --> 00:35:07.354
Now I'm varying it because I want them to learn the different responsibilities, but it might be best,

00:35:07.814 --> 00:35:12.134
for me to have them just stay with that one particular job each time they're

00:35:12.134 --> 00:35:16.914
in station so they know the exact expectation of what they're supposed to do in that activity,

00:35:17.134 --> 00:35:23.474
which I thought was very valuable for me to learn when I had that conversation with Jane.

00:35:25.634 --> 00:35:26.514
You're offloading.

00:35:27.995 --> 00:35:33.475
The workload there. Right. And not to say mixing things up. Like I like how you said it might be.

00:35:33.815 --> 00:35:37.755
And that's that intentionality. That's the glasses. Because what you're saying

00:35:37.755 --> 00:35:42.495
there is like, well, the goal of this, because I'm not assessing their ability

00:35:42.495 --> 00:35:45.995
to do that job, that's not the point of your lesson that day or what you're

00:35:45.995 --> 00:35:48.215
teaching. And I think that's what we've got to always remember.

00:35:48.855 --> 00:35:52.815
Sarah and I talk about it. What are you trying to assess? Because it might take

00:35:52.815 --> 00:35:58.495
these five abilities or things that I have to do to finish this one thing.

00:35:58.655 --> 00:36:01.495
So just be mindful of that. that right like

00:36:01.495 --> 00:36:04.255
what's what am i assessing and in this case

00:36:04.255 --> 00:36:06.975
you're not assessing whether or not they can collect papers or do

00:36:06.975 --> 00:36:13.075
this and so the more automatic it becomes to your point right there joe that's

00:36:13.075 --> 00:36:17.755
just automaticity like i just do it i just do it now it's not interfering with

00:36:17.755 --> 00:36:21.355
the thing i am trying to learn or the thing that we're trying to assess and

00:36:21.355 --> 00:36:25.195
the more we can get to automatic and routines,

00:36:25.415 --> 00:36:31.615
of course, that's huge, the better because you're freeing up working memory.

00:36:32.035 --> 00:36:35.475
You're keeping that bandwidth as great as you can.

00:36:35.715 --> 00:36:42.255
And teachers are so good at assessing what their classroom routine,

00:36:42.255 --> 00:36:43.915
what works, what doesn't work.

00:36:44.335 --> 00:36:49.595
And that's something we talk to some of the newer teachers or teachers in training

00:36:49.595 --> 00:36:54.035
or college-age students about is learning what works or doesn't work.

00:36:54.215 --> 00:36:58.795
And then also being able to say, like for me, as someone who's been in this

00:36:58.795 --> 00:37:02.495
game a long time, you know, normally at this point of the year,

00:37:02.675 --> 00:37:04.755
my eighth graders are on their way to high school.

00:37:05.750 --> 00:37:09.230
Seat selection. You can choose where you'd like to sit.

00:37:10.030 --> 00:37:18.210
And this is the first time in five years that I've said, and we're back to assigned seats.

00:37:18.990 --> 00:37:26.010
You can't do it. And if I'm going to make this end of the school year where

00:37:26.010 --> 00:37:30.890
you're going to see me show up every day, seat selection didn't work for you.

00:37:31.050 --> 00:37:33.050
Now, will I try it again next year?

00:37:33.350 --> 00:37:37.290
Absolutely. But, you know, and that's the other part, too, is that I like the

00:37:37.290 --> 00:37:39.550
idea of the glasses are on or off or changing.

00:37:39.750 --> 00:37:43.950
And it is, I think, a real perfect skill set that teachers.

00:37:44.710 --> 00:37:49.770
The good ones, really know to be able to change and be flexible in that way

00:37:49.770 --> 00:37:56.550
because it doesn't always work and it doesn't always fail, you know, one way or the other.

00:37:56.790 --> 00:38:00.490
But it's not a result of our processes either, right?

00:38:00.670 --> 00:38:03.990
No. Yeah. But the routines can change and the routines are different,

00:38:03.990 --> 00:38:06.310
you know, based on the different groups that you have.

00:38:06.430 --> 00:38:09.630
And I mean, we teach multiple classes throughout the day.

00:38:10.270 --> 00:38:14.410
And so as teachers, even in the primary grades, if you have the same class all

00:38:14.410 --> 00:38:18.090
day long, you might have someone who pushes in in the morning and then is not there in the afternoon.

00:38:18.090 --> 00:38:23.530
And, you know, so those routines change, you know, throughout throughout the day as well.

00:38:23.530 --> 00:38:30.650
And, you know, so I'm definitely I like the, you know, the idea of the specifics

00:38:30.650 --> 00:38:36.510
for for primary grades and especially to I mean, you know, we've been teaching for so long.

00:38:36.630 --> 00:38:42.430
It used to be the degree even that I hold is K-8 and that's not a degree anymore.

00:38:42.930 --> 00:38:49.410
They have, you know, the pre-K to three or pre-K two, and then I guess three to five.

00:38:49.570 --> 00:38:53.230
They've kind of like chunked, which is so important because there's such huge

00:38:53.230 --> 00:38:57.530
differences, you know, in those years. And I think that's what Joe said at the beginning.

00:38:57.670 --> 00:39:02.090
Oh, you taught the primary grades. I never went in any of my teaching experiences.

00:39:02.090 --> 00:39:05.930
I never went below third grade because that was, you know.

00:39:06.669 --> 00:39:09.949
Too too young for me um but my

00:39:09.949 --> 00:39:14.289
sister's been teaching kindergarten for a very very long time and i'm just curious

00:39:14.289 --> 00:39:18.729
like as a personal question when you talk about routines um there's there's

00:39:18.729 --> 00:39:23.829
this mention recently of kids um you know doing some new and and i guess creative

00:39:23.829 --> 00:39:29.069
behaviors um and one of them is a trend of like taking their shoes off,

00:39:31.169 --> 00:39:34.809
so they go to the rug and we're supposed to be sitting at the rug and we're

00:39:34.809 --> 00:39:40.749
taking our shoes off And that is new and different behaviorally than something

00:39:40.749 --> 00:39:42.669
that she had ever seen before.

00:39:42.889 --> 00:39:46.669
Would that be a routine issue, behavior issue? What do you think,

00:39:46.789 --> 00:39:49.529
Sarah? I'm just curious how you might handle.

00:39:49.749 --> 00:39:55.049
It's time for the rug and we're going to read. I think it's a hygiene issue

00:39:55.049 --> 00:39:57.549
is what it is. It could be.

00:39:59.791 --> 00:40:03.351
You know, I don't know if that's, and you'd have to ask your sister,

00:40:03.491 --> 00:40:09.751
maybe you know, if, like, I will get kids that come from Montessori schools,

00:40:09.751 --> 00:40:14.571
and they'll walk in and say, hi, Sarah, and I have to say, I'm Mrs.

00:40:14.731 --> 00:40:21.291
Overly or Dr. Overly, because that's just, there's different expectations there.

00:40:21.291 --> 00:40:26.611
So I don't know if somewhere along the line there was an environment where those

00:40:26.611 --> 00:40:28.771
kids thought that that was okay.

00:40:28.991 --> 00:40:32.511
Or I don't know if this is like a trend. I don't really see that.

00:40:32.891 --> 00:40:37.651
I'll see once in a while a shoe fall off. And it's usually because they can't keep them tied.

00:40:37.671 --> 00:40:41.571
And I probably already said six and a half times, like, you have to wait.

00:40:41.831 --> 00:40:45.631
So a shoe falls off. But I don't see that.

00:40:45.631 --> 00:40:48.911
And I don't know if you're saying that some

00:40:48.911 --> 00:40:51.671
teachers are either allowing it or encouraging it

00:40:51.671 --> 00:40:59.491
but I would say they're not allowing or encouraging yeah yeah we're we're gonna

00:40:59.491 --> 00:41:02.611
say no we're not gonna do that here we have to keep our we have to keep our

00:41:02.611 --> 00:41:06.971
shoes on we have to be safe now I know there's days like there's sometimes classroom

00:41:06.971 --> 00:41:10.671
rewards where one of the where words will be like, you know, shoes day.

00:41:12.011 --> 00:41:12.791
Fine, whatever.

00:41:13.671 --> 00:41:17.031
But I don't think that's an executive function. That's a like,

00:41:17.271 --> 00:41:21.871
you know, establishing and reinforcing your expectations in the classroom.

00:41:22.211 --> 00:41:25.991
Is it multiple kids or just like, I don't know you're speaking for Janine here,

00:41:26.071 --> 00:41:28.891
but like. I'm not, I'm not. I retract. Nevermind.

00:41:30.191 --> 00:41:31.371
I take it back.

00:41:33.251 --> 00:41:36.271
I, the next, we have another question for you.

00:41:37.031 --> 00:41:41.271
What changes do you hope to see in students as they're developing these,

00:41:41.271 --> 00:41:45.711
these skills as we're trying to lessen some of the gaps in learning?

00:41:45.711 --> 00:41:51.231
But what, what are you looking for as far as when you're fostering these changes

00:41:51.231 --> 00:41:53.571
in the kids? What are you looking for?

00:41:56.154 --> 00:42:02.194
That makes sense. Well, looking for, first of all, their ability to recognize

00:42:02.194 --> 00:42:07.654
in themselves, start to recognize like, oh, I got distracted or,

00:42:07.894 --> 00:42:10.534
oh, I can I have some headphones?

00:42:11.814 --> 00:42:18.254
She's singing and humming and, you know, she does that all day long and I can't focus on my work.

00:42:18.554 --> 00:42:22.594
Or, you know, can you close the door? I'm distracted by whatever.

00:42:22.594 --> 00:42:28.354
So the kids become aware of, am I paying attention or not?

00:42:28.834 --> 00:42:31.314
And they can even do that in first grade.

00:42:32.054 --> 00:42:39.254
And so, you know, we'll start to see kids that'll say like, can I have a divider?

00:42:39.434 --> 00:42:44.854
Which is basically like a testing tent or like you've ever heard or seen something like that. Sure.

00:42:45.054 --> 00:42:49.054
Yeah. Because I, you know, my friend is already done with their work and I can't

00:42:49.054 --> 00:42:53.054
stop looking over there. And I'm like, well, good for you for realizing that.

00:42:54.214 --> 00:42:58.754
You know, we hope to see that our kids, now we're not going to see this from

00:42:58.754 --> 00:43:02.994
the beginning to the end of the year, but over the years, we want to see our

00:43:02.994 --> 00:43:04.794
kids become more independent,

00:43:05.054 --> 00:43:12.754
more responsible for keeping their things together, for, you know, following directions.

00:43:13.734 --> 00:43:19.354
And as they are growing and maturing, they are able to maintain more.

00:43:19.354 --> 00:43:23.894
And we can expect more, but not a ton more.

00:43:24.654 --> 00:43:31.034
So certainly adults are much more capable than children, but if you're talking

00:43:31.034 --> 00:43:32.934
a kindergartner to a second grader,

00:43:33.314 --> 00:43:38.914
the maturation is certainly there, but we're not growing leaps and bounds in

00:43:38.914 --> 00:43:45.214
working memory or our ability to sit and look at a cool new toy and not pay

00:43:45.214 --> 00:43:47.534
attention to it because I have to wait till recess,

00:43:47.534 --> 00:43:50.354
but the teacher left it out. And now that's all I can think about.

00:43:51.627 --> 00:43:59.427
Hmm. And it's worth adding on to that, that, um, with like you,

00:43:59.527 --> 00:44:02.307
you, the, the, you're saying like, what should we see?

00:44:02.527 --> 00:44:06.467
And these are the behaviors we're hoping to spot.

00:44:06.667 --> 00:44:09.587
And if there's specific was a Sarah has a great line that these,

00:44:09.647 --> 00:44:13.187
these behaviors are brought to you by executive functions. Like they're the

00:44:13.187 --> 00:44:14.567
cognitive underpinning.

00:44:14.647 --> 00:44:17.007
So that's happening developmentally. And we're not.

00:44:17.949 --> 00:44:22.409
It's not possible to speed that up because I'm quote unquote teaching executive

00:44:22.409 --> 00:44:25.289
functions. Executive functions aren't taught, right?

00:44:25.489 --> 00:44:30.389
So, but these behaviors, and I think it's worth kind of teasing out,

00:44:30.529 --> 00:44:34.089
you hear executive functions and then you hear executive functioning skills.

00:44:34.489 --> 00:44:38.409
When you hear that word skills, we're talking about behaviors, right?

00:44:38.489 --> 00:44:43.269
These things I can do that are sponsored by or brought to you by executive function.

00:44:43.469 --> 00:44:47.409
So for the teacher that's wanting to see is that maturation is happening.

00:44:47.409 --> 00:44:52.429
However, at whatever pace that it's going, it's worth, like,

00:44:52.469 --> 00:44:57.029
okay, like Sarah just mentioned, being able to keep track of my stuff becomes,

00:44:57.289 --> 00:45:01.289
and that, by the way, that third grade that's in both titles of both books is

00:45:01.289 --> 00:45:06.129
deliberate because it tends to be, not always, but tends to be kind of this

00:45:06.129 --> 00:45:09.829
inflection point where we start to, without usually saying too much about it,

00:45:10.129 --> 00:45:13.809
expect some of these behaviors to start to emerge.

00:45:13.809 --> 00:45:20.289
And my urge, you know, kind of encouragement to teachers is,

00:45:20.369 --> 00:45:24.709
well, whatever those skills, those behaviors you're trying to see,

00:45:24.829 --> 00:45:27.189
you want to see, make sure you're modeling them.

00:45:27.709 --> 00:45:32.329
Very clearly modeling them and as a byproduct of routine, letting them practice that.

00:45:32.329 --> 00:45:36.669
So, yeah, we should expect by third or fourth grade, you're keeping track of

00:45:36.669 --> 00:45:38.529
your stuff. Okay, but what does that look like?

00:45:38.949 --> 00:45:42.009
I'm going to show you what it looks like to get and stay organized.

00:45:42.169 --> 00:45:46.449
And we're going to practice that every day because it's the third step when we do X, Y, and Z.

00:45:46.769 --> 00:45:52.629
So it's habituated just by routine. But over time, I'm getting practice with

00:45:52.629 --> 00:45:54.869
the quote unquote skill or the behavior.

00:45:54.869 --> 00:46:00.429
And that we can't just, even though these executive functions are growing and

00:46:00.429 --> 00:46:04.429
emerging and as we mature and age.

00:46:05.481 --> 00:46:10.601
It's worth noting that be very, very explicit about what that skill or behavior

00:46:10.601 --> 00:46:15.301
you're wanting to see develop and model it for students and give them practice

00:46:15.301 --> 00:46:18.561
again and again and again so they can make it their own.

00:46:18.781 --> 00:46:22.781
That's something you actually had mentioned in an earlier, you know,

00:46:22.861 --> 00:46:27.221
our previous conversation was about the D, when we talked about organized binder,

00:46:27.321 --> 00:46:29.501
we talked about, you know, the process

00:46:29.501 --> 00:46:32.961
of executive function needs to be embedded into what you are doing.

00:46:32.961 --> 00:46:36.561
It's not a separate thing it's like part of

00:46:36.561 --> 00:46:39.741
the the the greater good yeah

00:46:39.741 --> 00:46:42.661
of what the classroom is going to look like so i made it a better point this

00:46:42.661 --> 00:46:45.461
year to do just that to make sure that we talked

00:46:45.461 --> 00:46:50.141
about like when we are prepared for class what does that look like like that

00:46:50.141 --> 00:46:53.641
our device is charged that we have something to write with that we are you know

00:46:53.641 --> 00:46:56.541
focused and intentional to get our day started that we've looked at the anchor

00:46:56.541 --> 00:47:01.781
chart or the you know the anchor slide in the room like I've tried to model

00:47:01.781 --> 00:47:02.781
that as much as possible.

00:47:03.521 --> 00:47:07.021
And that's been very, there's been some payoff with that. Okay.

00:47:07.661 --> 00:47:11.701
Again, it also allows me to recognize those kids that are not able to cue into

00:47:11.701 --> 00:47:16.601
those subtle reminders and then kind of a, hey, that's what we should be doing right now.

00:47:16.861 --> 00:47:20.721
We should be, remember, that's what we're doing, like to try and get them on

00:47:20.721 --> 00:47:21.701
track with everyone else.

00:47:21.801 --> 00:47:24.401
So that's been very valuable. And I think that that's something that probably

00:47:24.401 --> 00:47:27.041
follows through in the theme of what's in the book.

00:47:27.741 --> 00:47:31.941
So. Yes. Yeah. I mean, that's that tier one, right? Like all kids.

00:47:32.938 --> 00:47:36.518
Oh, sorry. Go ahead. Sorry. I was going to say our episode with Mitch from last

00:47:36.518 --> 00:47:39.138
season premiered on April 29th of 2025.

00:47:39.278 --> 00:47:41.218
Why are students not successful in schools?

00:47:41.538 --> 00:47:44.098
We did talk quite a bit about Organized Binder Method.

00:47:45.058 --> 00:47:51.658
And we can also, you can check out Sarah and Mitch's book, which is available.

00:47:52.078 --> 00:47:54.398
Which, by the way, we didn't ask you what the title of the book was.

00:47:54.538 --> 00:47:57.558
I would like to apologize for not starting out with that.

00:47:57.698 --> 00:48:00.418
What is the title of this book, first of all?

00:48:00.958 --> 00:48:04.178
And do we have one to hold up? Are you reaching over to grab one or no?

00:48:04.338 --> 00:48:07.078
Do we both have one? Oh, shadeless plug.

00:48:07.938 --> 00:48:10.798
Executive functions for every K3 classroom?

00:48:11.978 --> 00:48:17.478
Yes, we will make sure that that is linked. Promoting self-regulation for a strong start.

00:48:17.798 --> 00:48:22.238
Very good. And we're going to make sure that that's linked in our episode description down below.

00:48:23.478 --> 00:48:27.338
Mitch and Sarah, we appreciate you guys very much for being able to join us today.

00:48:27.498 --> 00:48:30.538
Thank you very much. And also, we want to remind everybody that our Season 3

00:48:30.538 --> 00:48:34.378
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00:48:45.298 --> 00:48:49.238
Mitch, Sarah, Joe, I appreciate all of you. I cannot wait to get a copy of that

00:48:49.238 --> 00:48:54.078
book into the hands of my primary grade school teacher friends. That's awesome.

00:48:54.358 --> 00:48:55.718
I appreciate you. And by the way,

00:48:55.838 --> 00:48:59.738
we teased a special announcement at the beginning of our episode today.

00:49:00.178 --> 00:49:05.198
Join us next week because it is our 100th episode, if you can believe it.

00:49:05.338 --> 00:49:09.238
A podcast that started with two friends deciding to have too many cocktails

00:49:09.238 --> 00:49:12.898
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00:49:13.078 --> 00:49:18.138
We cannot wait. Live from the New Jersey Hall of Fame. Yep. That's where our

00:49:18.138 --> 00:49:20.778
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